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Apr 05

Why You Want to be Married

By Jay Slupesky
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Marriage Dynamics

Senior CoupleMarriage is hard work.  We all know that.  As a marriage therapist, I see it every day.  Two people, with their different personalities and different needs, are not going to be in a state a state of bliss 100% of the time.  Far from it. 

So sometimes it seems easier to blow it off and get divorced.  No more conflict!  No more obligations!  Freedom! 

But hang on a second.  There is more to this than meets the eye.  Here are some interesting statistics, courtesy of some recent scientific studies on the subject:

  • People who never married don’t live as long as married folks.  (Well, think about it.  You have to take care of yourself if you’re married; your spouse should insist on it. No more deep-fried Oreos, for example.)
  • Single people are more likely to drink and smoke heavily than married people.
  • Married people have lower rates of of mental problems and suicide.
  • Married folks have lower rates of cardiovascular disease and cancer.
  • Married folks have less stress, or least they handle it a lot better.
  • There is one piece of bad news: married men are more likely to be overweight than single men.

Is this enough to convince you that marriage is a good thing?

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This entry was posted on Saturday, April 5th, 2008 at 3:51 pm and is filed under Marriage Dynamics.

One Response to “Why You Want to be Married”

  1. a husband Says:
    April 11th, 2008 at 10:20 pm

    Very interesting facts. Yes, marriage is hard work, but it is still the most favorite thing I have ever done. This list just adds to the fun (except the overweight part).

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